These days, many women admittedly find that they can no longer keep a man’s attention. Even more shocking, is the fact that many women find they struggle to keep a man’s attention for even as little as 5 minutes. Even if she has known him for many years. This is all about to change thou, as your about to find out about the Secret Love Spell.
We have reached a disturbingly defining moment in our generation, where many women have effortlessly experienced a guy who would have had an amazing night with them. Tell them just how great they were. Only to have never called them back afterward.
The days where men spent weeks, months, and maybe even years chasing a woman are gone. Let alone trying to get her attention.
Instead, almost comically we find that women have taken over the role of the “chaser”. In an urgent bid to reap even the slightest amount of affection from a man. You cant blame a woman for essentially hunting down and grabbing onto a man in this day and age. An age where the average attention span of an adult has now reached a mere 3 seconds. To put it bluntly… a goldfish has a longer attention span than the average man does.
Although we can’t necessarily blame the guys either. Please keep in mind the fact that they are steadily being battered by ads and images. Along with peer pressure to move onto the next bigger or better thing.
Now more then ever there’s even constant pressure on women now. Pressure to be 5 lbs lighter, have whiter teeth, Dress better, have a better hairstyle or color, and much more. This list goes on and on.
This tends to be extremely frustrating especially when this takes over your love life. And with men who appear to be looking for the next best thing. Guys who don’t seem to stay on the same page very long, especially when it comes to love.
At this point, something has to give or change. Obviously, you cant continue attempting a relationship after relationship like this. With a guy who runs around like a mouse from a cat in his love life. Obviously, you cant continually be forced to feel like you are never going to be loved. Loved the way you need, want and deserve from a man. Because we know love is in such short supply these days.
So this is where I come in with a very easy and quick solution, because of the problem you are facing. The one where you struggle to get a man to love you. Love you wholeheartedly like you deserve. This is a problem that can now be fixed.
I would hope by now, if you have read this far you have had a little ‘aha’ moment. One going on in your head, and if not I promise that you are about to. Because there is one simple fact I have already revealed to you. One that will play an important role moving forward.
The fact that men struggle to keep their attention on one thing for very long.
you must remember the secret key to this fact is
Men actually ONLY STRUGGLE to keep their attention on you, ONLY IF there’s not enough motivation.
So what does that mean exactly?
It means this: if you can create enough interest or motivation inside a man, he will become drawn to you. Drawn to you like bees to honey. Thus the key to truly sparking a man’s passion towards you. Igniting any true emotional reaction from a man is to know exactly how to keep his attention sustained indefinitely on you.
By now you have probably noticed that many men of this day and age do not like to settle down for long. They may go on a date with a woman and had a great time. And they will be out the very next night again looking for something new or exciting.
It seems that even married men are guilty of ‘replacing’ their wives with hobbies or activities. Activities that get their interest almost reducing their wives to an invisible entity.
Men CAN and Will become laser focused towards something, as long as they feel motivated. This is the key, thus learning why they become motivated is your ultimate goal in truly capturing his heart.
So what motivates men then? What makes them tick? How do you get a man excited toward you more permanently?
Ultimately, men become motivated when they are challenged, or when something presents itself as a CONTINUOUSLY EMOTIONALLY REWARDING reality for him.
The best way to explain this is, I want you to think about the most stereotypical hobbies of men. Things such as fast cars, action-packed movies, and intensely graphic and violent video games come to my mind. What could possibly motivate a man to want to see that? Even take part in it over and over again.
Its the adrenaline rush of the fast cars and action-packed movies. It has a thrill to it. There is an emotional buildup happening each and every time a man takes part in something like that. The men are CRAVING that emotional buildup. One might even say they become addicted to it. They tend to willing partake in any activity that rewards them with that same feeling. But don’t worry men can easily feel this buildup towards women also. The problem is that most women don’t know how to sustain this buildup. Perhaps they could use a Secret Love Spell!
Simply put; most women actually don’t know how to keep a man emotionally wound up over long periods of time, and thus men move on looking for the next thing that will do that for them.
Now before you go blaming men for being so damn weird about their emotions, and before you go thinking “well why do I have to do all the work all the time…why is it always my job”… there’s one thing you must understand about men, that will make this a lot easier for you in the future.
You must remember that men don’t get the same feeling that you do. From connecting with people through talking and sharing their emotions. You feel better when you are close to someone, sharing your deepest secrets. However, men actually feel weird doing this. That is unless you can prove to them that this is emotionally rewarding. That a buildup of positive intense emotions is going to take place. just like a Secret Love Spell.
So the key is to learn how to create that buildup, and the Moving Target method, of course, will show you how.
You might be asking how does The Moving Target Method work? Well, there are two simple steps to it.
Step 1: Shower Him With Attention For a Short Period.
Step 2: Cut Off The Attention
This may seem extremely simple, but keep in mind your goal. The goal is to create the emotional buildup to get the explosive reaction of intense attraction you seek. Without this buildup, what will happen is this.
You will shower him with attention. Yes, he will enjoy it. But then he will grow bored with it and wonder “what’s next”. So you will end up stuck on level 1. When you intended to be moving along with this man to level 12.
So the key to getting a man to BECOME insanely addicted is to give him a little piece of the pie, but to challenge him to work for the rest.
Rinse and repeat, and repeat again.
Think of it like nourishment. Can you survive for the next 50 years, on one apple? Heck No. Would you want to just have one apple for the next 50years either? Of course not.
It works the same way here. You build up the tension and desire by giving him a little bit of something he’s already interested in….which is you. Men DO want to have a women’s attention and time. But they just can not connect with it, if it is TOO EASY. Men like to feel they are earning it, which is exactly what step #2 accomplishes. Removing his rights and forcing him to push and pull for the right to have you.
This not to say that you have to go overboard with this technique that he doesn’t feel like anything would work. But rather to say that doing this in little ways each day is the ultimate goal. Just like a man does on his own when you watch him. He thrill seeks in little ways each and every day to feel emotionally satisfied
The key, therefore, to keep him hooked in the long run is to do exactly that: give him little bursts of pushes and pulls….become the “Moving Target”.
You see something very interesting happens when you understand the buildup process, and when you become a moving target for him. You create a chase, and this chase creates an intense attraction buildup inside of a man.
This happens because first, you confuse him, thus creating anticipation of the unexpected, and secondly, because you don’t allow him to take you for granted. He is not certain if your running away and any minute he feels like this might be a loss. Then it is no longer a positive emotional experience for him, allowing you to leave. therefore he will see it as rewarding work trying to get back your attention.
And thus you form a circle of attraction, wherein he rewards you, and you reward him accordingly as you move forward or backward according to his reactions, moving like a Yin and Yang.
This is done by using the right set of attention-grabbing hooks and pulls. And by carefully releasing those hooks to keep him coming back for more. But now the big question is. How do you implement The Moving Target technique to have him feel intensely attracted to you? And have that attraction only build and become stronger over time?
Answering the “how” is actually surprisingly simple. But you want to be careful in knowing just what to say and do to get his attention on you intensely enough to create this reaction, to begin with.
Thankfully there’s a very easy explanation, which will show you exactly how to amplify his attraction toward you, to create the perfect tension buildup between you and a man.